//i have another blog where i write more random, stream of consciousness style writing. i just posted something on there and there is an excerpt from it that i'd like to share here with you. i'm fully aware of how reddit this whole thing sounds but i had to get these thoughts off my chest. for some reason they were weighing on me. and while upon profreading, it did make me cringe at a few points, i think there is a lot of good advice in here for more lonely men
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anyway. i've been thinking a lot for the past couple of days about the nature of modern men and women. i've pretty much come to the conclusion that men of this generation should essentially avoid all women as a whole when it comes to dating. we should give up on dating them. women have entirely too much power and we let them have it, foolishly thinking they were capable of wielding it, and we were horribly wrong in our assumption. had this decision been given to me, i would have made the correct choice by not allowing women to vote or work in any position of authority, but unfortunately no one ever called me up and asked my opinion, because i would've steered them in the right direction. so now we live in a country where we have women police officers pointing a gun at you for a parking ticket, we have women in positions of congress making decisions based off of pure emotion, and we have women voters who are casting their votes based solely off of which candidate will allow her to kill her children more easily and cheaply. i could write a book on the cascading negative effects of this sudden power imbalance, and many people have. i think i'll make a post going more in depth on my main blog.
the reason i say to stay away from women is because they will drain your life force in every way possible and you will receive absolutely nothing in return. you will sink all this emotional, physical, and mental energy into this demonic never ending vitality black hole. it's like as a young man, you build this life for yourself, and you think "huh, this is pretty cool, i'm having fun, i'm not a trillionaire but i have everything i need and i'm okay and i'm happy." then you meet a woman who you love. and she judges everything you do, nothing is ever good enough. she won't have shit to her name. you will have all this stuff, you take her out to dinners that cost her entire weeks paycheck, you spend it on one meal for her, and she will expect you to do it the next day, and if you don't, she's gone. you shouldn't have to keep up with this broke bitch. never chase these broke whores. if you have a woman who sticks by you no matter what, then fine, God bless. but for most men that is not the case and with most women they won't do that for any man anymore. they've all had 900 dicks in them by the time they're 25 at this point, so none of them know anything about loyalty whatsoever. their ability to pair-bond is completely shot.
you know, it's a really funny thing about women. you could be with a girl for 5 years, you teach her all sorts of things on a huge array of topics, she teaches you nothing, and at the end of the 5 years she will still think that she is just as smart as you. they are 100% delusional.
you ever see these women who get all tough and say shit like "i'm gonna kick his ass!" or "i wish a guy would try that with me, i'd rip his nuts off!" whenever i hear women talk like this i just hope someone starts physically abusing them. like shut up bitch, you have no idea how weak you are.
that's the thing with modern women is that they have been psyoped (extremely easy to do to women, like taking candy from a baby) to believe that to be the best version of themselves, they have to be like their ideal husband. what these idiots don't understand is that in doing this, they remove all the aspects of themselves that make women likable, such as femininity, softness, kindness, helpfulness, and being someone who takes care of family. now women complain about how often they're objectified for sex, which is completely retarded because they do it to themselves, but when you strip away all of the nonphysical aspects of a women, and make her act like a man and do man things, then the physical is all that is left. no one is attracted to a woman's personality anymore, because they're all awful. then, these women with -10/10 personalities, do nothing but post pictures of their semi-naked bodies bent over on the internet for the entire world to see, and then they say "can you believe this creep liked my picture from 8 months ago?" very few things in the world are as frustrating to me as when a woman starts sharing her opinions on things. they are always so misguided that you have no idea how the fuck they even got there.
so in case you couldn't tell, i'm single right now. not that i would have wrote anything different while i was in past relationships, but i'm not in one now. however, this cat that's hanging out with me right now has been a 1,000x better companion than any american woman could ever be. this cat loves me to death for 2 cans of cat food a day. she meows for me when i'm in another room, she lies on my chest when i'm on my computer, like right now. she shows me so much affection and makes me smile constantly. she will never text me and ruin my day. she will never leave me for another owner because i said something that she "just couldn't deal with." i love this fuckin' thing man. if you don't have one, i highly recommend you go get one, and if you don't have a girlfriend, good. you're better off.
it's pretty funny but i've noticed that i was the biggest simp back when i was a virgin. back when i was 15, before i had any sex, i was the gayest, pussiest, doormat, simp, faggot the world has ever seen. i absolutely praised women and because of this they wanted absolutely nothing to do with me. however, there is a very small portion of women who love this pussy-worship sort of thing, and so i still had minor success with women at the time. the more women i got with, the more i started to learn about women in general, the more i learned the differences between modern and traditional women, and the more i became to detest what is the modern woman. so be wary, you sluts on the internet calling all the misogynist men "incel," it's actually the incels who are simping for you online and being completely nice and agreeable to you no matter what you say. the misogynists online being mean to you, they're usually far from incel. they're usually the guy who took home your slut friend from the bar last weekend. these women spread their legs for free for a stranger after a night out and then have the audacity to look down on prostitutes. the prostitutes are at least getting paid and they don't have to lie to themselves about who they really are.
if you've never been in a relationship before, i can't stress this to you enough - the pussy is NOT worth it. i promise you, if you're alone and single right now, you are happy, or at least happier than you would be if you had a nagging bitch near you who sucks up every valuable force you have in this world. your energy, ambition, free time, freedom, money, emotional well-being and peace of mind will mysteriously vanish if you link up with one of these modern women. it's bad for your health. jacking off (while i don't condone it) is 1000% better. it's free, you can do it whenever you want, you don't have to ask a woman to do it for you like you're some abused homeless guy in scraggly clothes asking for one of your saltine crackers. don't get me wrong, sex feels great and there's a reason there is so much talk about it amongst people, but all that glitters isn't gold. and i mean that truly. the grass is always greener, right? you might be lonely, this is good. you should learn to enjoy being lonely. i learned to enjoy it about a year ago and it was one of the best things i've ever done. if you still feel lonely, buy a cat, you'll be fine.
i'm sure you've had plenty of experiences in your life where you didn't take someone's advice and you seriously regretted it. i'm promising you that this will be one of those times. if you couldn't tell by now, i'm speaking from experience. but let me tell you, the first and last time i let myself fall deeply in love with a woman, my gut told me the entire time not to do it, and that it wasn't a good idea, but i actually ignored my own advice, and i can't even tell you how much i regret it. that's why sex is so dangerous, you may act in ways you never thought you would over the right woman, and if you've had sex with her already you'll do even more for her if you're a simp by nature. the thing about sex is, when you're a virgin you think to yourself, "if i could just have sex one time, i'll be happy enough. i'll get it out of my system." but this is not what happens. what actually happens is that you get it into your system, and all of a sudden you are obsessed with it. it will consume your mind and time alike. if you're anything like me, you could not only become obsessed with quantity of women, but you could also become especially infatuated with a woman if you let yourself get there. this is probably the worst position you could be in as a man. i'd rather be fucking homeless than be in a position where a woman has power over me ever again. never fall for the lie that women constantly spout that you should open up and become vulnerable with the woman you love. they tell you this so they can gain control over you. you might read that last sentence and think, "this guy's crazy there's no way women would do that to gain control of you." okay then go ahead and try it. see what happens. i'm not writing this shit out for my health, it's because i've lived through this bullshit, and i really prefer that i hadn't. i'd be a lot richer, happier, healthier, more intelligent, more well travelled, and i'd be in a 100x better position overall had i followed my gut. so do yourself a favor and stay away from pussy. if you find a woman that is wholesome, a virgin, and is willing to wait until marriage to have sex with you, then by all means go ahead. otherwise, just jack off. live your life on your own terms, without some demonic bitch that only cares about herself dragging you down. if this woman you're thinking about was so great, some rich guy would have already snatched her up to marry her. there are not very many reasonable women who are attractive left, and if you add the virgin filter, the number drops to near zero.
men have enough bullshit to deal with in the modern day. don't add to your list. focus on yourself and build yourself.